Okay, so yesterday on facebook...wait a minute, I seem to have a lot of facebook stories...hmmm does that mean I am spending too much time on facebook!? Is there a facebook anonymous out there!? Anywho....yesterday I posted that I was having a hard time writing on my blog. Brain freeze or something! One of my friends told me to FOCUS. So I tried..it didn't work. Once again, he said, "FOCUS." As you can see there were no posts yesterday, so focusing....didn't happen. Then one of my friends said, "Just channel the energy and wit of your husband (Jamie) and lover (me) and I guarantee you will get something going!" As you can see he is a big jokester! No lovers in my marriage or his! =) The "lover" by the way is a white man. Relevance...you will see in a moment. Well, the jokes went back and forth and then a couple of other friends chimed in, and finally I said, "Now you all know, once you go black you never go back." Well the laughter roared out loud on facebook! Lot's of LOL's! LOL...wow, am I 13!!!? =) One of my friend's who is also married to a black man (she happens to be Hispanic) said, "So true!" So is it true? Once you go black, you never go back? The saying came from somewhere, so how true is it? I'm married, so I'm not going anywhere, black, white, brown or blue, but if I wasn't married I would definitely be attracted to black men. Aww heck, I am attracted to black men! I'm not dead! =) Is it because that is what I'm used to? Is it because I'm happy in my marriage? Is it because my daughter is half black? Is it because of the stereotype about black men? This is a "G" rated blog, so we can't get into that one. =) Is it just my preference? I'm pretty specific in my preference of black men that I find I'm attracted to....big, tall, bald, with a goatee....ohhhhh, that's my husband! Now I get it!!!! =) Hmmm, what is your thought on this one.......?